What Was, Was:

I'm sure your wondering what I mean by this and well its pretty simple. If your reading this, it means that you've been given a second chance, a second chance to live another day, to right a wrong, to move on and forget the past. You have been granted entry beyond the velvet ropes into the party called "LIFE".

Today and most importantly, every day, make a commitment to throw away you security blankets or blame. Its too easy to blame instead of looking at yourself as the cause. Throw that blame away, along with your fear, self doubt, self destruction, and hopelessness. Instead replace it with confidence, optimist, clarity and consideration to the feelings of others.

So ask your self this, "what pain are you willing to release today?" and "What pleasures are you willing to embrace?"

This will help you clear away your cobwebs of uncertainty from your past.

Today's message was meant directly for you, yes, you right there sitting at your computer reading this! So stop looking around because I'm pointing right at you!  God made you for a purpose, you may not know what that purpose is today or tomorrow or a year from now but believe me when I say this, in due time, it will be revealed. There are no accidents when God has something up His sleeve and when He made you believe me honey, He had a wonderful plan in mind! So maybe today sucked and maybe next Wednesday it might rain and you'll have a bad hair day but you have this to look forward to: One day You Will Make A Difference! You can count on that!

Okay ladies you know I love you all to death but I need to get a few things out there on the table for you. It just makes me sad to see all these women and girls running around here so willing to change who they are for the guys they love or even worse the guy they want but who doesn’t really want them! Ladies, you have to be strong enough to know that if he doesn’t accept you for who you are now, he will never really love you because the “you” you have changed yourself into is what you think he wants not the YOU that you really are inside.

Even if you manage to get him, not only will you be unhappy the end but eventually you will resent him for making you change and you won’t even want him anymore so do your self a HUGH favor, save yourself a bunch of time and heart ache and wait it out until you find that one special person who accepts you for the person you are! Believe me, it’s worth the wait!

Perfect lesson for the day:

Today's message is simple, its all about not forgetting and ultimately enjoying life! 

I also was to throw in something about forgiving and not being so hard on yourself because take it from me, the world is full of people who will happily put you down for free, 24/7  - 365 so don't add insult to injury. Life can be really simple if you just let it.

So take it easy on your self today, its Wednesday!

Today, no let me correct myself, everyday you are a queen so let that crown shine! Even if your the only one who knows its there, that's all that matters! Keep your head high and rock that bling girl!

This past month I've had the opportunity to speak with a lot of people in doing so I have come to realize that many people set out daily to win the approval and love of others and in all honesty, half of these people they are trying to win approval of they don't even really like! This to me is crazy! We all have enough people who love us now and to those that don't, well their not worth our time or energy!  There's no need to be so consumed with wondering and searching and hoping that this person or that person will love you or want to hang out with you. It's just not important! Enjoy the time you have with your family, friends and loved one now because one day you'll look back and realize how much time you've wasted on people who never mattered!

 

Our world is becoming so consumed with things that don't matter, people are caught up in things that are meaningless yet they feel these things will define them when really its taking away from their personality and harming their soul. What has our world become, what matters most to people, is it even real?

Go out and find yourself, find your soul. Don't get lost in the little things that consume so many souls. Get back to who you are and what really makes you YOU. In the end it's not about your status, your fame, fortune or how many followers or friends you had, it's about what your life meant to you and what you meant to others. 

Get out there and find your soul, reclaim it and define what's most important in life. Life is short, don't waste another moment.

I love it when we look to ourselves for what we need instead of looking to others. No one knows what you need better than you. Today is your day, this is your moment so instead of searching outside for what others want you to do, look to yourself. Be Your Own Hero!